There’s something so cheeky and dramatic about a good garter toss. And if you’re gonna do it, you’ve got to have the right song—something flirty, fun, and just the right amount of raunch to get your guests hyped and your partner grinning.
From 90s slow grinds to modern-day tunes, the right garter toss song can set the tone for a moment that’s more playful than cringey. It’s a chance for your partner to show a little personality, get the crowd involved, and add another memorable moment to your reception playlist.
Whether you want to keep it romantic, go full-on sexy, or turn it into a performance moment, these R&B garter toss songs will bring the vibe.
What Makes a Good Garter Toss Song?
When choosing the perfect R&B track for the garter toss, keep these things in mind:
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Lyrics matter: You want a song that matches the energy of the moment—something suggestive but not too suggestive (unless that’s your vibe).
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The beat: Choose a track with a recognizable rhythm or one that invites movement. The right beat can help your partner strut, tease, or toss with confidence.
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The nostalgia: Don’t underestimate the power of a 90s or early 2000s jam. Those are the ones that make the aunties yell and the uncles dance in their seats.
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The vibe: Funny, sexy, playful? Pick a song that fits your couple’s energy and your wedding’s tone.
R&B Garter Toss Songs to Consider
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“Pony” – Ginuwine
This is the garter toss anthem. If you’re feeling bold and want to turn the moment into a whole performance, “Pony” is your go-to. It’s playful, sexy, and makes everyone cheer the second that beat drops.
“Nice & Slow” – Usher
For the lover who likes to take their time. This song is a nostalgic, yet sultry, which should provide a confident walk-up to your partner. It gives “I know what I’m doing” energy—and everyone in the room will feel it too.
“Untitled (How Does It Feel)” – D’Angelo
This one’s for the grown folks. If you want to make it steamy but tasteful, this song is sensual without trying too hard. Plus, Gen Xers and older Millennials will get a kick out of this once they hear those opening notes.
“Anxious” – Ginuwine
Because the anticipation is part of the fun. This one sets a teasing tone like, “I’ve been waiting all day to get to this part of the night.” It’s flirty, familiar, and full of pent up energy.
“Between The Sheets” – The Isley Brothers
This is very obvious. This track brings some spice to the moment that every generation will resonate with—perfect if y’all don’t mind a few raised eyebrows and seat adjusting from your guests.
“Freak Me” – Silk
If you and your partner like to clown a little. The lyrics are dramatic, the vibe is old-school sexy, and it practically begs for someone to do a body roll. You know your uncle and probably your college bestie will yell out the chorus.
“Bed” – J. Holiday
Soft, sexy, and ideal for setting the mood. If you’re leaning romantic but still want a little heat, this one rides the line perfectly. You’re saying “this is cute” but also “see y’all later.”
“Any Time, Any Place” – Janet Jackson
Janet said what she said. This song is for the couples who want to tap into a more intimate energy. It’s soft and sexy in a way that doesn’t feel performative—just real smooth.
“Earned It” – The Weeknd
If you want to feel like the main character. This song has cinematic vibes and lets the moment feel big and romantic. It’s perfect if you want the crowd to watch and not just cheer.
“Red Light Special” – TLC
A throwback with a message. It’s lowkey sexy but not over the top, and it reminds folks that TLC really did have the R&B slow jam lane on lock.
“Sexual Healing” – Marvin Gaye
For the couple who loves the classics. If you’re blending old-school charm with modern-day love, Marvin Gaye sets the tone with a wink and a smile.
“Boo’d Up” – Ella Mai
A modern, cute moment. This one’s less sexy, more sweet—but it still fits the vibe if you’re just feeling yourself and your love. It’s a bop with heart.
“Come and Talk to Me” – Jodeci
Because you’re still crushing. It brings back the feeling of when y’all first met—just with more slow grinds and better outfits. Let it play and let the crowd reminisce.
Want to Add Some Fun?
If you’re trying to make the garter toss funny or unexpected, consider pairing an R&B song with a surprise intro—maybe a dramatic slow-motion walk-in before the beat drops, or switching to something a little ratchet tune that everyone knows. It’s your wedding, you can really do whatever you want!
And If You’re Skipping the Garter Toss?
No judgment here. Plenty of couples are ditching the garter and bouquet traditions altogether. But if you’re keeping it, let the music speak for you.
For more inspiration, check out our Spotify Garter Toss playlist.
